Today host Hoda Kotb and her former fiancé, Joel Schiffman, are navigating the next phase of their relationship after their recent split. An insider exclusively tells Closer that they remain on good terms and are committed to moving forward with grace. Their journey, though unexpected, is one of mutual respect and understanding.
Reconciliation Was Never in the Cards
When the news of their breakup broke, many hoped for a reconciliation. However, according to an insider, those hopes were more wishful thinking than reality. The source explains that while both Hoda and Joel cherished their time together, they recognized they were at different stages in life. This realization made their decision to part ways inevitable. It's not about who was right or wrong—it's about finding what works best for each of them individually.
Announcing the Split
On January 31, Hoda Kotb shared the news of their breakup with her Today audience, bringing an end to their eight-year relationship. While it came as a surprise to viewers, the decision was made thoughtfully and with consideration for their daughters. Their parting wasn't bitter; instead, it was described as "bittersweet" by an insider. Hoda expressed that she truly loved Joel, but they simply weren't aligned in their life goals.
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A Focus on Family
As co-parents to two daughters, Haley Joy and Hope Catherine, whom they welcomed through adoption, their primary focus remains on raising their children with love and stability. The source confirms there are currently no formal custody arrangements. However, Joel remains committed to staying involved in his daughters' lives. If Hoda ever needs support, especially in emergencies, Joel will be there for them.
Different Visions for the Future
In January 2022, a source revealed to Closer that Hoda and Joel had differing perspectives on expanding their family. While Hoda dreams of adopting more children, Joel found it challenging to manage their current family dynamics with two young girls. Despite Joel's love for Haley and Hope, he realized they weren't on the same path. Hoda, who became a mother later in life after battling breast cancer, sees motherhood as her calling and would love to adopt again if circumstances allow.
The Journey to Motherhood
For Hoda, becoming a mom was a dream fulfilled after undergoing breast cancer treatment in 2007 left her unable to conceive naturally. In a July 2021 episode of Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen, she shared her excitement about adopting a third child with Joel. However, the ongoing pandemic disrupted their plans, making the process more complicated than anticipated. Even so, their intentions reflect their deep commitment to building a family together—until life took them in separate directions.
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